Hi, my name is Dolly. Actually, I am Devorah Yentl, but when I was born, clerks in communist Russia were not allowed to record names like that on a birth certificate. So the woman said to my mother, “Little girl, go and come back with a good Russian name.” My mother was little, that much was true, and at 4’11” she did look like a teenager. She wasn’t timid, though, and she did come back with a good Russian name, Dolly. As you can see, it starts with a D and ends with an L. To the clerk’s exasperated whisper, “But it’s still foreign!” she calmly opened a book she brought with her. Leo Tolstoy, the Russian classic, had Princess Dolly among his main characters in Anna Karenina. You couldn’t argue with Tolstoy, and thus it was duly recorded, in memory of my two great-grandmothers. Lest you think it only happened to Jews, I will refer you to a documentary about a famous Russian actress Lyudmila Gurchenko whose father wanted to name her Lucy. The clerk flatly refused to record a foreign name, suggesting “modern soviet names” Lenina, Stalina, Lelud (Lenin Loves Kids), or Dazdraperma (Long Live May 1st). They finally settled on an old Russian Lyudmila, but throughout her long and eventful life she was known as Lucy.
It wasn’t easy to keep kosher in communist Russia. You couldn’t go to a kosher store and buy anything, from soup to nuts, with a Hecksher, the way it is in the US. Here, chicken is already shechted for you, and cows conveniently label their own parts as “beef for stew.” As Yakov Smirnov used to say in the eponymous TV sitcom, “What a country!” For us, Cholov Israel meant my Zeide actually watching the milking process. And when the shoichet was retired because his hands were shaking, Zeide would buy live chickens and shecht them himself. Since childhood, I was taught how to salt a chicken to drain all blood out of it, to make it kosher. When I bought my first kosher chicken in a Jewish store in America, I brought it home, cut it open, and to my horror, found a small clot of blood! I salted it and left it to drain as I had been taught. For quite a few years after that, I kept “kashering” kosher meat, just in case.
I am semi-retired, I love to cook, and I now have time on my hands to share my recipes and exchange new food ideas. My recipes are different from traditional American Jewish food. I invite you to explore, to experiment, and by all means, to get your kids involved in the magical fun of transforming this-that-and the other into something delicious to grace your table. This is truly better than I-pad, so what’s a little mess made by little hands, when there is lots of love and laughter!
This blog is dedicated to my children who have been incredibly supportive throughout an ordeal of my father’s illness and – Acharon, acharon… – to the memory of my father, a beautiful person loved by all.
Well deserved 🙂 Keep cooking, and blogging!
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Thank you so much!
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Hello Dolly,
You have a wonderful blog, so I have nominated you for the Mystery Blogger Award and here is the link:
https://inspiresn.wordpress.com/2017/04/06/mystery-blogger-award/
Congratulations!
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Dear Nisha, thank you so much for this nomination – I am honored!
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Hi, Dolly, I nominated you for the Blog-aholic award. I hope you enjoy it. 🙂 Here is the link: https://gypsybus28.com/2017/04/17/the-blog-aholic-award/
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Dear Jen, I love your blog and I am honored to be nominated. Congratulations!
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Thank you. I love your blog, so many great recipes. You totally deserve the award. 🙂
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Thank you again, dear!
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Hi Dolly,
Thanks for stopping by my blog and also liking it.
I love the way you write. Hoping to try a few recipes from your blog, during my vacation next month. Keep writing.
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Dear Sanga, I love your blog! You are a professional, so you really know what you are writing about, whereas I am just trying my best to make good food because I love cooking.
Thank you for your kind comment!
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You have a lovely blog and a beautiful story .:) Looking forward to explore more of it . I too have my blog and thanks for following it . This is my profile page do have a look and feel free to share your views 🙂 https://rosesunshine1314.wordpress.com/about/
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Thank you, dear Shreya! I love your blog, and I truly admire your photography and your taste in recipes.Looking forward to more!
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Thank you so much it means a lot to me 😊 Happy Cooking Happy Blogging. Stay in touch.
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Most definitely!
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Thank you for following my blog!
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My pleasure, and I am looking forward to reading your posts.
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HI, Dolly! Love the story of your name! Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my health and fitness funnies as well as becoming a follower. I am enjoying my visit to yours.
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Welcome to my kitchen, Tony! Thank you for your kind comment. I am glad I found you!
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Nice little blog you’ve got going here.
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So do you, sweetheart, very interesting reviews and well written.
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Thanks so much for following me and saying that.
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My pleasure, dear, looking forward to reading your reviews.
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You are welcome any time.
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So have you seen The Student?
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No I haven’t, but I will look it up.
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It’s Russian, just came out.
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Thank you for bringing it to my attention.
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My pleasure!
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I am always on the look out for movies to see. I usually get some fantastic recommendations from bloggers.
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This one was shown at the Cinemateque here on the night when we couldn’t make it – I read the official reviews, and I am very curious.
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I’m very curious too now.
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Hi, you know how much I love your blog, I just nominated you for the Liebster Award https://hasidic.me/2017/07/03/liebster-blogger-award/ feel free to accept and participate
Enjoy
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Thank you so much for nominating me; I am truly honored!
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Hi Dolly!
I just came across your blog and I’m excited to read more posts 🙂 I am also Jewish and I started my blog last year while I took a gap year in Israel with the main goal of helping girls stay healthy while in seminary. Now that I am in college, the goal has expanded to include college students as well! Feel free to check it out https://theartsypalate.wordpress.com/. I post recipes and advice for how to eat healthfully, and I am a dietetics student.
Thanks for sharing your recipes!
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Dear Dena,
Thank you for stopping by, and welcome to my kitchen! I visited your blog and found it very interesting. I am looking forward to new posts from you.
Shavuah Tov!
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Enjoy your blog. Regarding sailing, we used to sail out of St. Augustine until my husband’s back injury. Our sailboat was a Hunter and we used to sail in the Bahamas when we could. I miss sailing so much! Where do you like to sail?
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We live on South Beach, so we mainly sail up and down the bay, to various keys, depending on how much time we have. Hunters are nice! We have a little 26 ft Catalina.
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What a beautiful story.
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Thank you so much for your kind words!
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Your smile shines through your words! Thank you for following my blog.
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You are so kind! Thank you for your lovely comment.
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The positivity reflects on your face!
Your smile😍
Love u Dolly Aunt💗
Can I call you Aunt ?
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If it makes you comfortable – sure! 😻
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Awww😍 So sweeetttt of u💞
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🌹💞🌼🌷🌸🌹
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Nice Blog. Keep the good work going 🙂
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Thank you so much, dear Charu! Thank you for stopping by.
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Great About statement! I so appreciate all your views and your consistent support for my works! Thanks so much for following me!
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Thank you so much! I love your blog and always enjoy your poetry.
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It’s wonderful to see you, My Dear! I am so honored and grateful for all your views and support on my blog! Have you finally recovered from the hurricane damages you sustained?? I never did hear how that all worked out for you guys??
xoxo 😊😘💕🌹🌹
Chuck
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Dear Chuck, I hope you enjoyed the New Year celebration, and I wish you and yours a happy, healthy, and safe 2021!
Unfortunately, we have never recovered our little boat, so we’ve been saving for another one. Meanwhile, we go to the Keys to get away for a weekend every chance we have. Just came back from New Year weekend at Key Largo. As they say, you can take a sailor out of water, but you can never take water our of a sailor’s heart!
I hope you are well and staying safe, dear friend!
All the best,
Dolly 😻
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So very sorry to hear that you never recovered your boat or that you haven’t been able to replace it by now or get back into business!! Your little get-a-way sounds great! Yes, you are right about someone who has salt water in their blood!! Hope you can get another one soon!
Thank you so very much for your sweet wished and I wish you and yours the very same – A great 2021 filled with happiness, health and prosperity!! You stay safe too, My Dear!!
xoxox 😊😘💕🌹✨
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Thank you for your kind wishes, dear friend! 😻
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Thanks for following meatballsandmuffins.com. I look forward to spending some time visiting your blog very soon,.
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Thank you! I am looking forward to exploring yours.
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Thanks so much for the pingback!
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My pleasure, dear friend!
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Thank you for following my blog. 🙂
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My pleasure! Looking forward to your upcoming posts!
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Love your blog. Great receipies! Thank you!
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Thank you! Is that you?
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great statement! you’re welcome:

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Thank you so much, dear Geno! Cheers!
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Я не владею английским достаточно, чтобы читать сайт в оригинале. Поэтому читаю в переводчике. Если это не противоречит вашей концепции, то буду давать комментарии на русском. Вы замечательно обращаетесь к читателям, в переводчике – красивые люди. Интересные рецепты блюд. Не уверена, что смогу многое попробовать, так как в России нет некоторых инградиентов.
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Разумеется, не противоречит! Я тоже читаю с переводчиком на языках, которыми не владею, и искренне блгадарю Вас за внимание и усилия. Я живу в тропиках, поэтому и экспериментирую с экзотическими ингредиентами, но всегда Вам подскажу чем их можно заменить из того, что Вам доступно.
Хочу заметить, что с удовольствием читаю Ваш сайт и иногда использую Ваши советы в работе со студентами. “Красивые люди” – это все дети, без исключений, все мои студенты которые учатся работать с трудными детьми, и вообще большинство людей на свете. Так я считаю, и так легче жить на свете!
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Спасибо за теплые слова и ваше отношение к людям и миру. Буду уточнять у вас информацию.
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Всегда рада помочь!
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Your profile is fascinating. Reading it is like stepping into a different world. It’s good to meet you.
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Thank you so much, Robert. It’s great to meet someone who understands how different that world was. Even my husband, who came here as a child, sometimes does not understand the specifics of pre-perestroika films.
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I knew about Russian Jews because my grandparents discussed them. There were Jewish organizations in the U.S. that collected money to help Russian Jews emigrate to the U.S.
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I am familiar with those organizations, of course, and grateful to them! The funds were actually collected to help Russian Jews whose families had been separated during WWII to join those families in Israel. That was the official reason the Russian government issued exit visas, since communist dogma did not allow for the idea of emigration from “the happiest country in the world.” My case is different, as I did not emigrate for a simple reason: I was a refusenik for 7 years, and then I was expelled from the USSR as “The enemy of the people” – official formula. I went wherever asylum was offered, which was Philadelphia.
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Wow. That’s quite a story. You are clearly a person with courage. Thank you for explaining what those funds were for. My memory gets a bit murky.
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Oh no, it’s not your memory; it’s the understanding of convoluted Russian logic. As it is, I am amazed at the extend of your knowledge and understanding, Robert!
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Russia’s persecution of Russian Jews was a big topic in my family. I remember weekly letters from the American Jewish Appeal. The Holocaust was another big topic. I was so glad to be a kid in the U.S. and not stuck in a country where I would be killed and persecuted for being different. It feels a bit ironic in the Trump era.
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There is a lot to discuss there, especially with someone like you, Robert, who is both familiar with the issue and interested in it.
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Very beautiful blog. Thank so much for the follow. I really appreciate this.
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My pleasure, dear Marta, and I am looking forward to exploring your beautiful blog!
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Thank you. Much appreciated.
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I am going to enjoy getting to know you.
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And I you.
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thanks for following my blog
regards
Your Well Wisher Program
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My pleasure.
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Hi there! Your story is facinating. Are you in Russia now?
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Thank G-d, I am in the US, have been here since 1978. Thank you for stopping by, dear Brenda!
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Hello there! I’m assuming that you’re Jewish, please follow us! I need to follow you. I don’t care where you are. I love your culture.
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Dear Brenda, I have tried to get on your site to follow you, but it keeps saying “Site is no longer available. Owners deleted the site.” Perhaps you should change settings, if you want to be followed?
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Try tapping or clicking this link: https://davidsway.blog It seems to be working. I don’t know what’s wrong.
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Got it, and will follow. Looks like an interesting and very informative blog. Thank you for pointing me towards it.
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Thank you! ♥️
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My pleasure, darling!
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I followed you!
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Thank you so much, darling! Why don’t you look into your settings, so I could follow you as well.
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I followed you. I love your culture.
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Thank you so much, darling!
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You’re welcome!
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Okay, I thought it was easy to follow us. Thanks for this information. I’ll check into it!
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I really like the layout of your blog.
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Thank you so much, dear Dr Tanya!
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You’re welcome dear.
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Especially your home page.
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I am simply plugging my content into a theme. I am really a total techno-idiot!
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You can’t be worse than me.
My kids are still living at home so they help me out.
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Lucky you! I just muddle through the best I can.
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What a story. I’m all ears.
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(chuckle) Thank you, darling! I think everyone of my generation who grew up under that regime has a story, and mine is by no means unique.
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It sure is.
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What a wonderful bio, Dolly! Truly! ♥️
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Thank you so much, dear Felipe; it is what it is…
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Congratulations, dear Dolly!
I have nominated your blog for the Sunshine Blogger Award.
More about this nomination is at
https://dearkitty1.wordpress.com/2019/08/16/sunshine-blogger-award-thank-you-ybp/
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I thank you so much, dear friend! I am honored.
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All the best for you, the blog and the food!
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Thank you, and all the best to you as well!
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Beautiful , eating healthy keeps us smiling .
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Thank you so much for stopping by and for a lovely comment!
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what terrific women, you & your mom! your blog is a gift to all of us, not just your kids, Dolly ❤ would you be so kind as to guest blog post for my site? if you’re so inclined, here’s a link to general guidelines: https://wp.me/p6OZAy-1eQ
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Thank you so much, dear da-Al, for you kind words (I am blushing all over the internet)!
I would be honored to do a guest post for you, but your guidelines specify “non-religious,” and my blog is religious by definition. Kosher means correct according to Jewish religious law. What do you think?
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so glad, Dolly! when I state my preference for non-religious, I mean in terms of folks who try to convince others that their way of thinking is the best & they’re looking to create separation among people — I regard your blog as a cultural dialog which includes your history & beliefs, but not your judgement of others who don’t have the same religious beliefs as you do. if I’m correct, then I would love to have you write for my site.
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You are correct; I uphold my own beliefs and respect the others. I will be honored to write for your site in a couple of weeks. Two questions: first, should I send you a Word or PDF document, accompanied by images? and secondly, do you require only a vegan /vegetarian recipe, or could it be anything?
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so happy! word & jpg would be great. timing at your connivence, dear. veggie would be delish, then I can try too ❤
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I didn’t know you were also vegan, dear da-Al.
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more vegetarian, tho I eat fish at times – it is always lovely to learn about each other here in the blog sphere, no?
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Of course, though I am not a vegan or even vegetarian, but when I do guests posts for Renard, I can only send him vegan recipes – his rules. That’s why I asked you.
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Lovely introduction.Enjoyed reading.Wondering how I did not find this earlier.I must dig into your vegan stuff.Thank you Dolly.
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Thank you so much, dear Pluto!
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Thanks Dolly, for your explanation ~!
I wish I could say that I understood it all, but even the pronunciation alone lost me. We like to think that we know more about the way other people really must live, think, and believe in other lands, especially those who are even considered non-citizens in the land of their birth. I have often seen it, but still know so little about it. Maybe people like you can throw more light on the subject through your writing, (and cooking), as you did here.
Being a Unitarian and a Liberal in thought, we did try to understand the teachings and thoughts of all peoples, and our children were taught the traditions of others, even going to their places of worship for edification of all things possible. However there is more in this world that we do not know, than that which we do. I know that I often made mistakes when visiting other lands, especially when visiting in their homes, but they are innocent mistakes on my part, and I always tried to learn from my mistakes, often being embarrassed by my ignorance. It is too bad more Americans do not try to learn about the life of others, before they complain about their own life being “so terrible”. You will see this thought in several of my posts.
I so wish that more Americans had the outwardly love and understanding you show in your post, I for one feel that love, when I read your post and for that as well, I must say thanks.
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Ah, dear Sam, “There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.”
I truly appreciate your interest, dear friend. The quick explanation is that several consonants in Hebrew are pronounced differently depending on the presence or absence of the dot inside the letter, which in effect makes it a different letter. Compare English letter C in SUCCINTLY: the first C is pronounced as K, and the second one as S. Take the word SPECIES, and C is pronounced either as SH or as S. Something similar happens in Hebrew, where grammar rules are obviously different from English.
I have taught a graduate course in Multicultural Awareness, mandatory in Florida for teacher certification, and I agree with you; most information covered in this course was a shocking eye-opener for many students, and that included not only American-born people.
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You know by now that I do not follow those “word prompts” but rather will go off on a tangent from something I read, hear, see, or even dream about. So your site triggered this.
Oh, I have enough of my own problems with the Latin base, and I am too old to take on the phonetics of other languages at this late date. But I had a very good friend, Dr Robert Harms, who had a cottage less than a mile up from me on the same creek, He was a Rhodes Scholar and also studied in Russia and Scandinavia, calling his and his wife Sirpa’s “pied a terre – Purola”. Purola was a COMPLETELY “off the grid” cottage, including toilet~! (poor Sirpa). He was department chair of the Linguistics Department at U. T. for several years then head of their Doctoral department on semi retirement, then U.T. gave him an office in the herbarium where we often met.
Bob and I were the same age and we did a lot of work in conservation and dendrology of native plants together. To both of us this was an avocation that we took up in the interest of our earth, mostly trying to identify non native invasives and having them removed if possible. We would volunteer to go out on a ranch and identify & map the unique plants there. To me it was a fun thing, but to Bob, with his eternal professor attitude it made him a perfectionist. So most of our “discussions” were in the scientific names of a common plant; while I often called an Oak an Oak, only differentiating what kind of oak. This really bothered him…and we once argued for hours over my identifying a “China berry Tree”, Melia azedarach. A very invasive tree here; due to the birds carrying the berries long distances. He insisted that I could not identify it, due to the fact that it was not blooming or fruiting…..WOW~! I can identify one with my eyes closed due to the very unique odor alone. I once asked him to identify a pretty little yellow plant I had on my place and he came back with: “well you would probably call it “blowing in the wind”, but I would call it “Coreopsis lanceolata”. He often showed up at my place with plants to add to my collection, always insisting on planting his self, as though he did not trust me to do it. ( I miss you Bob, you made my life exiting~!)
Bob ended up writing many papers and a couple of books on the subject of native Texas plants… I do not know how many he wrote on languages. He and I really got along great, but unfortunately he suddenly passed away in 2016, leaving another empty spot in my life… Due to commonality with you I think that you would enjoy reading about him:
https://liberalarts.utexas.edu/linguistics/faculty/harms
Oh well I have been thinking about that ‘science fiction’ story you alluded to, but I think that some nut may try to use it as Trump has used the book “1984” as the base for his presidential modus operendi. As you know by now, I try not to get too serious about life, I spent too many years doing that.
SAM
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Thank you for the link, Sam. He certainly was a remarkable person, and you were lucky to have him as a friend.
Also, thank you for an interesting and enjoyable discussion.
Be well and stay safe,
Dolly
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Strange that I read this right after reading a poem by another person. Great poem except in one place where a common but often mispronounced French phrase was used and rhymed with an English word,,,,,, It hurt my ears, because the French word just did not rhyme, even though it had almost common spelling..
By the way, on your Haitian posts, I have a dual feelings. Such a beautiful, yet terrible land,; after so many years of backward thinking, unable to understand that there are often two sides of a subject. I love the people and food but not what has happened to them. Could America go this direction as well, pushed by people who are being told lies about their lives, often from the pulpit, promoting bigotry, hate, and separation.
By the way I understand their Creole much better than I understand Parisian French, I do not know if it is because of the slowness, sing-song way of speaking, or that they are just using many of the old words that I was raised with.
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You have said it so well, Sam: “a beautiful, but terrible land.” I have been teaching Haitian students for 30 years, ever since they started coming here in numbers, and I had some of them do their field hours and internships at my school, so I am pretty familiar with their trials and tribulations. I truly feel for them!
As to understanding their Creole, I don’t want to go into deep technical linguistics, but Creole languages follow the same principles of development, so all French-based Creole languages are closer to each other than to the actual French.
I hope you had a nice New Year celebration, and I wish you and your family a happy, healthy, and safe 2021!
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Hi Dolly!
I like your blog and the way how you write your story. I am sure that many of your recipes will go to my culinary book. Thanks a lot for sharing and following Suitcase Travel blog!
Angela
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My pleasure, dear Angela! Thank you for your interest. I will be delighted to explore your blog.
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Thank you for sharing your life, your stories, and your culinary skill, Dolly. You are a blessing to us all. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you for a sweet and very kind comment, dear Anna!
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Absolutely love your site. The recipes and accompanying stories are great reading.
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Thank you so very much for stopping by and for your kind comment.
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LOL! Of course, the registrar couldn’t argue with your mother when she proved Dolly was Russian because there was a character in “Anna Karenina” with that name.! What a charming story! No Russian would argue with Tolstoy.
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In those times they wouldn’t dare argue with a party-approved writer.
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Thanks for the blog post. http://www.fooddoz.com
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